How to want more without feeling guilty for new moms: honest answers for Edgemont

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Comfort is not the enemy in Edgemont. Numbness dressed as comfort is — and they wear almost identical clothes.

And this is Edgemont: one of the Provo-Orem area's most established communities — the kind of place where life looks handled from the outside, which is exactly why the gratitude-versus-settling question lands so quietly here Which is exactly the kind of setting where comfort is easiest to mistake for closure.

🎧 A note for Edgemont readers (read aloud)

“What if the life you're thankful for is also the life you've quietly stopped growing inside?” — There Is a Fine Line Between Gratefulness and Complacency

Signs you'd only tell a stranger

You fantasize about a different life for exactly nine minutes at a time, then the alarm goes off.
You've built a beautiful waiting room and called it a home.
Gratitude is real — it's the alibi that isn't.

The gratitude / growth ledger

Two columns on paper: 'What I'm grateful for' and 'What I'm pretending not to want.'
You don't have to act on column two today. You just have to stop hiding it from yourself tonight.

Nobody's coming to push you out of a good life. That's why you have to walk.

The idea at the center of the book

The book's central promise is simple: you can be deeply thankful for your life and still owe it more. Page after page, Lindsey Nasser shows how contentment and growth stopped being opposites — and what happens when you finally stop treating them that way.

Reader questions from Edgemont

Is this a religious book? No — it's a personal-growth memoir-essay hybrid with universal themes. Readers of any background (or none) quote it the same way.

What's the one-line takeaway? 'Grateful' and 'growing' were never opposites — and the moment you pick both, the guilt goes quiet.

The book that goes deeper

There Is a Fine Line Between Gratefulness and Complacency by Lindsey Nasser unpacks this whole tension — with humor, nostalgia, and zero hustle-culture noise. Kindle $0.99 · Paperback $14.99 · Free on KU.

There Is a Fine Line Between Gratefulness and Complacency — book cover Kindle — $0.99 Paperback — $14.99

Free with Kindle Unlimited · Paperback rides Prime · Discussion prompts on the main site.